But if a friend doesn't or can't do all the above at a certain time, when you feel you need them the most, it doesn't make them less of a true friend. You are not a true friend yourself if you don't understand that the other one has their own life, problems, worries, and that they need their time and space once in a while, without involving you.
Everybody needs to breath and mind their own business and cannot be 24/7 there for you, no matter what you do, no matter what they do.
And again, that doesn't mean that your friend is not a true friend, or that they don't love you or care for you anymore.
It all has to be both-sided: feelings, respect, understanding, care, even if sometimes it might be more difficult to understand.
Just a thought...
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